One of the most common obstacles to growth is the one around asking for help. Many people continue to struggle, trying to achieve their visions on their own, with various reasons as to why they don't ask for help.
Not asking for help, largely out of pride, left me reeling in large debts a few years ago. I thought I knew it all, and I did not think that anybody would be able to give me advice that I did not know. Boy was I wrong! I may have known a lot at an intellectual level because I had read every book on the market, but, I did not "know" at a cellular level, that this was my truth. And so I stumbled, and fell, until I got up once again, and trusted that there were people who really cared about me and wanted me to achieve my goals. The goals I have achieved in my lifetime were not achieved by myself. They were the result of visible and invisible support that carried me through the most challenging of times, to the most blessed of times.
There are many different reasons why people don’t ask for help.
I truly believe that the ones who make it to the top are not the ones who need the least help, but are actually the ones who have recognised the need for help and have the courage to be truly honest with themselves about this. Knowing that the coach/mentor will give them open honest feedback that will make a huge difference in their life.
Here are some reasons you may not ask for help:
These are all reasons that I have heard from people, for not asking for help. They are common, but are they reasons for you to stay stuck where you are for the rest of your time on earth?
What if you began to look at them from a new perspective. You don't need help, you are not needing fixing. But having someone who sees your potential and can empower you is truly valuable to us all! I have my go to resources, people who provide me with support and guidance where I need it.
So here is why I think you would benefit from finding help from someone.
There is greatness seeking to express through you in the world. Through your devotion to self-realization, with appropriate guidance, you bless the world. Don't let your fear of not asking for help stop you making that difference......PLEASE!!!!!
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